Do spirits who have died go to their own funeral to see what it was like and who attended?

Yes. I didn’t believe but I do now. My niece died of Ovarian stage 4 and no one was capable of giving her a proper funeral, it was too devastating. So I did it. My niece and I were close in age and I was like her bigger brother. We always played jokes on each other. It was a fun relationship. At the burial, my family was standing waiting for the priest. It was a sunny beautiful day. All of a sudden my trunk popped open. So I walked to the car and closed it. Then it popped open again. I thought it was broken and I slammed it shut only to have it do it a 3rd time. Now everyone was watching. I blamed my son and said “stop!! It’s not funny”. And he said “I swear I didn’t do it!” Then it did it again. Now family members whispered is she playing with him? That’s her personality. So I said loudly “xxxx, stop it now it’s not funny” and it stopped

after the burial was completed about 15 red ribbons swooped down then up and did it a second time, then flew up and away. My sister – her mom – said “this is definetly xxxx” with a heavy but happy heart

years later I was invited to go to a John Edwards medium thing. I thought sure… he googles people or he has plants in the audience. He started asking for someone and would lay out the description. Many would say “oh that’s me” he’d ask a few questions and say “no no I’m looking for…”. I reluctantly said it could be me. And he said I have spirit who loves you very much and she wants me to thank you for doing the funeral”